Ever say to yourself…

Where Did My Life Go?

If you feel like you’re just treading water instead of moving forward with your life, you’re not alone. It might be because you are not 100% sure where your destiny lies and therefore cannot move towards it. This really is the biggest challenge people have. It is the reason why so few people actually live their dreams.

Did you know that between 95 and 99% of people do not know what they want?

That’s a scarily high number, isn’t it?

The vast majority of people are not clear on their destiny and therefore zigzag around life as if it would last forever. The result is, they are not getting anywhere or at least not where they feel they should get to. I know what I am talking about as I was one of them. However, this is about you. Why not ask yourself whether you are one of the 95%? If you are, it is most likely why you feel you are not getting anywhere.

Do you want to change that?

Please, do not take offence but if someone were to write a book called

“The Life Of … (insert your name)

would it be worth while reading?

Let me ask you: Are you satisfied with your life? Is it exactly as you wish it were?

If you knew that the next 10 years would be more of the same, would you look forward to them with enthusiasm and joy? Or do you have something else in mind?

Do you have a dream that still calls you? A passion for something you have not lived yet? A yearning, a burning desire, a higher purpose?

The good news is that there is still time for you to live that once it becomes clear to you!

Each one of us has greatness inside, each one can be an inspiration to others, YOU TOO!

Author Barbara HofmeisterHi, my name is Barbara Hofmeister and I am THE PURPOSE FINDER. Weird name? No, it says exactly what I do. I help you find your purpose and passion and give you the belief and courage to actually walk towards it. I can promise you, it will be the most exilerating journey ever.

You see, we are all born with a clear purpose. As small children we still know it but over time it get’s buried under a heap of experience, challenges, pains and disappointments.

The mediocrity, the fatigue, the lack of drive or passion is a slippery slope, and before you know it you find yourself frustrated and unfulfilled, lying on your sofa watching TV and wondering how you got to this point. Hopefully you are not there yet but I have seen it again and again, actually I have been there myself more than once. And it happened each time when I took my eyes off my dreams, off my destiny, off my purpose.

Here’s a truth for you:

In life you’re either moving ahead or moving back. And if you feel stuck, frustrated and in a life of someone else’s making, you’re probably going in the wrong direction.

Time is our greatest enemy. Once gone, you cannot get it back – no matter what you do. One day you “wake up” and you are 40, 50, or even 60 years old and wonder what happened, what happened to your life, what happened to all those great dreams you once had.

That’s why you might catch yourself saying…

 Where did my life go???

The great Jim Rohn used to say:

“Most people plan their next vacation better than they plan their life.”

As crazy as it sounds, it is unfortunately true. Of course you probably have all kinds of hopes and dreams, but unless you are really clear where your destiny lies, what your purpose is, you will not get there. You have to KNOW, not just guess, wish, and dream. You have to “see” where your are going before you actually start walking in that direction. Makes sense, doesn’t it?

You see, because most people don’t see their path, they have not designed their future and therefore zigzag through their life. Make sure this is not you because if it is, the years will go by while you drift further and further away from your dreams.

Albert Einstein said: “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results.”

Tell me, do you want to continue…

  • to lose precious time?
  • to live a hectic but unsatisfying life?
  • to fear ending up broke?
  • to be afraid of old age?
  • to think you could do and be more but still don’t take the right action?

Or do you want more clarity and certainty, RIGHT NOW!!!

You don’t want to end up with “the song” still in you!

You want and deserve Happiness and Success!

You want and deserve Financial Freedom!

You want and deserve Fulfillment!



helps you in all areas of your life but the most important part of it is, it helps you gain total clarity in what you want the rest of your life to look like, it shows you your destiny, your purpose. It shows you – the true you.

How does it work?


First of all you gain CLARITY on your purpose. We will spend most of two course sessions on this. It is that important.

and we call it the


The second step is to gain CERTAINTY. Here we will look at your fears and doubts and how to overcome them. 

It is the FEAR BUSTER (TM)

The third step is COMMITMENT. Now we will look at your core values, your motivational triggers, stengthen your belief in yourself so that you dare to make your dreams come true. 


In the fourth step we give a final polish to your vision for the future and COORDINATE it into action steps so it becomes your reality.

Now you have reached the FREEDOM OF CHOICE TM


You might not quite believe it yet but life is about living to the fullest and you can only do that when you live your passion and purpose. It is the only way you will reach your full potential. And don’t get me wrong, your purpose does not have to be to save the world but it will be bigger than you are now. If you are one of the many that want more out of live, this is how you will find that “more”. It really is not that difficult.

I invite you to to get my book which will take you step by step to

discover your purpose and passion.

The TO BE Book is your key to success on so many levels

To be or not to be - the choice is YOURS!

Live a Life of Purpose and Passion

Just read some of the rave reviews:

Harv T. EkerIn this book Barbara helps you recover your dreams and offers you the roadmap to your personal success. Now all you need to do is follow through. The steps and techniques she lays out take you through an easy to follow process that will help you rediscover your purpose and passion. It will also help you define the beliefs and fears that have been holding you back. It’s a powerful process that can completely transform your life. However, this is not a reading book. It takes some effort from your side to actually do the exercise offered herein. You have the choice to put this aside half read or to make a commitment to yourself and your loved ones to truly live the life of your dreams.

T. Harv Eker
CEO Peak Potential Inc.
#1 NY Times and Wall Street Journal Bestseller
“Secrets of the Millionaire Mind”


This book is not only words; it is a vivid life experience. I think this is very important, when the writer knows what she is talking about. This is not surmises or guessing how it should be, but a strong belief and knowing of the subject! After reading this book you are starting to believe there is nothing you can’t do.

Tania Olenska, Odessa, Ukraine


The TO BE book by Barbara Hofmeister ranks in my list of best books next to those by Zig Ziglar, Napoleon Hill and Tom Peters. You’ve got two options: not read it for whatever excuse, and live your life at the same level of excuses … and keep on complaining on how tough life is for you … or read it, act up on it, and expand your life to it’s highest potential. The choice is yours. I already read it and can recommend you to do the same.

Tom Commeine, Belgium


Try It! You Have EVERYTHING To Gain!

Amazon Review by Lexie Moon

To be or not to be – the choice is YOURS! is more than just another self help book. This is a complete program from A to Z. Barbara provides exercises, techniques and insights that will take your personal growth to a whole new level.

Barbara activates thoughts in the reader that make it so clear and easy to see how to begin moving from struggle to your dream life, the one that you choose. She reminds us in such a beautiful and inspiring way that we do have freedom of choice. If you apply the techniques in this book- you will change. Your life will change. You really can create your life and Barbara shows us a fun, simple path to all of life’s treasures. Stop complaining about your life and take action. This book is the only tool you’ll need. God bless you Barbara!

Get your own TO BE book NOW

only $ 19,70 $ plus shipping & handling

and get this amazing BONUS – value 27 $

19 short inspirational and practical messages for a better life plus an introduction and summary to the Moments TO BE

Next month and every month thereafter you will receive 30 new Moments TO BE so you have one message for every day of the month and eventually you will have an inspirational message with lots of practical tips for every single day of the year. Even the busiest of people will find a minute or two to get themselves inspired and motivated.

To make it even easier for you, I will send you your daily Moment TO BE also per email as an MP3 file so you have even more options where, when and how you want to listen to them. How does that sound?

So let’s summon it up.

If you order the TO BE book today, you will not only get the book that is changing thousands of lives but you also get the beautifully designed “Moments TO BE” CD with the first 19 Moments TO BE plus the introduction and summary.

Here are more rave reviews of my readers


You see how we live, trapped by convention, culture, expectation of others etc. You don’t live that way, and seem to have done it differently from an early age. From your experiences, you understand why we do what we do, and how we can change our lives by being honest with ourselves about what it is we really want from life, and then working towards achieving that.

I think many self-help books are fluffy. They are written for one purpose – to make money. The people who write them have a holier than thou approach. Not you. You talk to your members as one of them and actually get us to get up and do it.”

– Katie-Anne, Sweden


I can honestly say that after attending many self help / motivation seminars, listening to all the big names in motivational speakers arena and doing all the positive thinking possible, the To Be Book is the one that has lit a fire under my butt! It hit home with a wake up call that time is running out on living life to my dreams and expectations. It has forced me to analyze things that I have not thought about, write them down and write down the actions for me to make a change in my life.

Best of all it’s working and it’s sunk into my sub conscious and now I can immediately identify my self sabotage habits.

Thank you Barbara Hofmeister for such a life changing book.

Santiago E. Perez, Florida


I started reading your “Choices” book tonight. I’ve read other books on goal setting, knowing your vision etc during the last week so it’s all familiar information but somehow your book really spoke to me. I was fighting back tears as I read and made notes. I’m up to about p46 now. I love the Mandela speech and I’ve got to stop playing small.

Your 5 year vision was amazing, tearfully beautiful and you deserve every bit of it. You are so right. We want to touch other people’s lives and we won’t do it by holding back.

And making the dream, the vision, the mission a reality has to be right up there. I really am focusing and concentrating on all of this. Thank you Barbara I love your “Meet Yebut”. I’m very impressed that T Harv Eker wrote the foreword.

Antonia Harrison, Belgium


Barbara, your new book “To Be or Not To Be: The Choice is YOURS” is a wonderful, practical and clearly written workbook. I love the quotes and other references you make to a myriad of resources. If you REALLY want to make your dreams come true, then USE this book to address those fears, the negative self-talk, and commit to doable steps to make it happen. I so enjoyed having you on the radio show.

Patricia Porter, Texas Conflict Coach


Barbara, I started reading your book last week. It is amazing! So full of easy to do techniques that actually got me to reignite my big dream. I had almost forgotten it. Unbelievable, don’t know how that was possible but it’s true. Your book has helped me immensely. Thanks

Irene Stetten, Germany


You know Barbara, your short writing on Dreams is so touching and inspiring. I have great plans to change the world and I’m young and a student. I’m thankful that you gave the first chapter free. I READ IT SEVERAL TIMES A DAY. IT’S THAT GOOD. LOVE YOU AND GOD BLESS.

Noah Prince, Indonesia


Hi Barbara,

Yes, I have read your book and have written down the 5 things on the “Wake-up call” chapter. This week I’m going to dig more to answer the “What do you want” chapter. I’m in the wake-up call phase, just awake 5 months ago, and I’m just glad that I accidentally found you on Twitter. This is so exciting Barbara, I never done this kind of writing before 🙂

A N D I N A (through facebook)
“Free as myself and seeing beyond my view & perspective”


Hello Barbara, I’m really enjoying your book. “To Be Or Not To Be – the Choice is Yours!” is insightful, practical and designed to help us tap into our potential. This (work)book is a “must-have” for anyone seeking to fulfill their greatness. If you desire to do, be and have more in your life, then get your copy TODAY!

– LaShawn McCrary, US Radio Show Host


I like the idea it is a workbook, for just reading about something inspires you for the moment, but doing the “work” is what makes the change. I know your book will be a huge success and change many lives!

Estra Roell
America’s Life Purpose Coach™


Thank you Barbara Hofmeister…

Ms. Hofmeister, thank you for reminding me that I have a choice in being an active participant in my good success. I love the To Be book! Every exercise challenges me to look within and lay out a clear & precise plan for this wonderful life that I have the power to design.

Regardless, of where you are in life; the benefits of absorbing the divine wisdom Ms. Hofmeister, freely shares based off of her personal life experience(s) and others is priceless. The To Be book (workbook) is in a league of its own, and another great Personal Development staple to add expediently to your library with the other greats!

For this one thing I am confident of; the principles and fundamental philosophy pertained in the To Be book have been tried, tested and proven to bring success; however, the choice is always up to the reader. This powerful orange book that illuminates so brightly in the Earth will surely stand the test of time, as it is universally changing lives – one reader at a time. Especially mine! Do yourself a favor and invest in this book. You will be so happy you did. I AM!

See you at the top!

Ta’Wand M. Allen
Executive Producer & Host of “TaWand Talk”


Hi Barbara

This isn’t about theory. Your system is about doing and achieving. I think you really want people to get the vision they want for themselves. That’s way you ask us to describe it so vividly – and finally I got it.

I am not a victim anymore. Thank you so much.

– Charles Burke, USA



I want to let you know that no matter what happens you are going to be a great success. I know this because I am an expert in the field of behavior and I am very good at assessing person’s abilities and their will to get the job done. You have the power to become one of the biggest inspirations to your clients.

I see also someone who is a very big role model for kids, specifically girls, in the area of development. You are by far one of the strongest people I have ever worked with. YOU WILL SUCCEED and together someday WE can make a difference in one small sector of a market, but on your own you will reach millions!

– Dr. John P. DeMann
CEO Pillars of Excellence


You could be the best female Coach/Trainer on any level because you really care. All you have to do is get someone to market you with the same passion you coach us.

-Morgan Standal, Australia


Barbara is that rare breed of person; not only a woman who has a clear vision of where she is going and what she intends to achieve but also one who can clearly implement a plan and bring it to fruition.

Most of us have strengths that make us effective to initiate a project, or run with it for a certain distance, or complete and manage different parts of a project.

Barbara manages all stages and with equal enthusiasm and commitment – this is quite a rare talent. She does not give up when the going gets tough and she ensures that you don’t give up either. This clarity, commitment, tenacity and tidiness are wonderful qualities in a personal life coach and trainer. With Barbara you get the whole team in one person!

– Sharon Macnish
Director of Professional Education,
Letchworth Centre for Complementary Medicine, England


Barbara, amazing is not saying enough when talking about your book. I believe it is needed. Finally a self help book that gives us a clear plan and plenty of easy to follow exercise that bring real results. The introspection I went through answering your questions was eye opening. At last I am clear on what I want and have started to take my first steps towards getting it.

You are right about us passing by too many opportunities because of fears and lack of belief in our self. I am very grateful to you for sharing your experiences and showing us such a clear path. Thank you Barbara.

– Noirin Azzadrou, South Africa


“To Be or not to BE-the choice is YOURS!”” is not merely a reading book, it is actually a full manual, a full program that walks you through the processes of:

* Becoming clear on what you really want
* Creating a vision of your dream life
* Facing your challenges and overcoming them
* Setting clear anchors and goals
* Using a step by step process to achieve those goals
* Clearly defining and living your life purpose!
Barbara Hofmeister’s book is all about the fact that we always have a choice, and that you can achieve the life of your dreams, if you so choose, “To Be Or Not To Be – the Choice is YOURS!”

It is a book for anyone who desires to go beyond their present reality, stretch their boundaries and live the life of their dreams… Enjoy!

– Doreen Whitelock, US


Barbara helped me through a painful break-up and led me quickly to new perspective ensuring that I was able to move on.

Her book is inspiring, practical and challenging from the start. It makes you ask yourself questions.

Barbara’s aim is for you to move forward on the path to creating the life you really want. No one will do it for you but this book is about making your choices. If you make the right choices based on the answers you find, your life will change from reading this book.

If you just read the first chapter, as most people do of any book, then your life will stay in your perhaps uncomfortable comfort zone. If you seriously want things to change, then I recommend Barbara Hofmeister’s practical advice and wisdom to you.

From reading this book, I know myself better and I have reached the point where I know what I want to do and why. I will not accept a life of doing what others want me to do. Over the weeks of reading and applying this book, I have reached peace and contentment. You can too. The Choice is Yours!

– Antonia Stuart-James, Belgium


Hi Barbara, it was a pleasure having you on my show. Your words of wisdom in your book, ‘To Be Or Not To Be Be,’ should be in every home around the world. Thank you for sharing and much success with your book! I love it!

– Dianne Friday, US Radio Show Host


I have just read To Be or Not To Be – The Choice Is Yours!

The book started off with an impressive foreword by personal development giant T. Harv Eker.

The author then took me on a great journey of self exploration and discovery. Some events in life can have a profound positive impact on you, for me this book was one of those events.

The book was written by someone who I could relate to, someone who still has goals and dreams and who has had success and failure in her life.

This book puts the “Personal” into personal development.

The TO BE book by Barbara Hofmeister is full of great assignments, some which were easy and others that needed some real soul searching.

One of Barbara’s dreams is to help transform the readers life into the life of their dreams: Well Barbara your wish has come true, I am on my way to living the life of my dreams. Thank you.

By the end of the book I felt like I knew the real me. Once this happened I knew what path to take in my life and I felt passionate about doing it.

On the acknowledgements page of To Be or Not To Be – The Choice is Yours, Barbara thanks experts such as Jim Rohn, Tony Robbins, Dr Wayne Dyer, and Mark Victor Hansen, after reading this book Barbara Hofmeister has earned her place beside these other giants in personal development.

– Damien Thomas, Dublin, Ireland

Order the TO BE Book Now…
ONLY $19.70 plus S&H (including a $27.00 bonus)

Introducing the Author

Barbara Hofmeister is an internationally renowned speaker, author and expert on the topic of human growth. In the last 3 years alone she spoke to over 15.000 people helping them to get their dreams back and the courage to make them come true.

Barbara became interested in her own personal growth in 1978 when a friend gave her the book “Your erroneous zones” by Dr. Wayne Dyer. Since then she has not stopped studying the topic.

Barbara considers it her mission to help as many people as possible to rediscover their dreams and to gain the confidence and belief in themselves to actually make them come true.

She is a passionate advocate of constant learning and reinventing oneself. No matter whether you are in one of her coaching groups or go to her workshops, you will always get drawn in by her never ending enthusiasm and passion for helping you succeed.

But before you order the book…

I want you to be aware of something. The “To Be” book is not a magic pill that you can pop and your dreams happen. There is no such thing, no matter what some gurus might tell you.

However, there are practical steps one can take to arrive at your dream life and the “To Be” book will show you these steps.

It is a full manual, a full program that walks you through the processes of:

Becoming clear on what you really want

Creating a vision of your dream life

Facing your challenges and overcoming them

Setting clear anchors and goals

Using a step by step process to achieve those goals

Strengthening your belief in yourself and your abilities

Being motivated to taking the right action steps to achieve your dream!

…and clearly defining and living your purpose!

The TO BE Book is changing lives all over the world with its no nonsense approach to living life to the fullest, getting on track to peak performance and creating a level of achievement that you’ve never experienced before.

You have a birth right to live your life the way it was meant to be lived. Anything less than that is a tragedy for both you and those around you.

If you want to have a road map to your dreams, then don’t wait another minute. Starting right now you can begin to grow, thrive and pursue your passions with a renewed enthusiasm and energy.

Order the TO BE Book Now…
ONLY $19.70 plus S&H (including a $27.00 bonus CD)


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